Archives for August, 2011

Sharing the Good News

Although intended for the best, sometimes sharing the good news is not always a positive outcome. After all, people know you remember things.

More often than not it seems as if you’re the only one oblivious to their burn out of your good news tactics and gracious offers for them to improve their lives and make more money and retire to the Florida Keys sooner than later while improving their health and well being with your new vita-pill-drink!.

You’re just sharing the good news. You don’t need that kind of pressure. Time to get this monkey off you back!

So, as a new business person, you have to write these folks off your list and warm and friendly contacts (because the industry of network marketing labels them that way) and you end up losing your rank and status in the arena of family and friends because that same win at all costs industry says if they cannot or will not support you in whatever your dreams are, then you didn’t need them anyway.

I would certainly hope not. That is a pure case of not sharing the good news!

What you really need to remember at this point in your little business rant to save the world is…”don’t try to share your seemingly good fortune” with everyone or everything that moves!

Keep in mind that some people will be wide open to change and new ideas, having been prepared by the your giving spirit from times past.

When it comes to sharing the good news, you need to realize that it’s just not their time.

If and when you sense a resistance or an uncomfortable response, just tactfully, professionally and lovingly change the subject.

Demonstrate true sensitivity and concern for this person and be mindful that their time will come..You just need to stay close to your moral and ethical business conventions. There’s a time and a place for everything and everyone.

Having said that, I have to also state that I am not putting down or am opposed to the great many men and women who make their livelihoods persuading and selling to the masses in our society. Some of these great selling giants do come with even greater values in sharing the good news.

Is It True That Positive Thinking Can Help Get My Boyfriend Back?

Having gone through the difficulties related to break up anyone will try anything to stop the pain and get their ex lover back. If you are therefore thinking of “how to get your ex boyfriend back,” then stick around as we discuss methods that will help.

We are all aware of the role of positive thinking in changing our lives. Even though some people have dismissed any impact that positive thinking may have in their daily lives, many more have found it to be true that positive thinking does turn things around for good.

You have to back up your thoughts with effective action. In other words, in order to successfully use positive thinking to get your boyfriend back, you will have to develop a picture of your desire in your mind and follow with solid action to make your desire become a reality.

You have to take one positive step after another in pursuance of your desire. Any wrong actions you take will simply compound rather than solve the problem. For example, you don’t have to stress your ex with continuous text messages, emails and telephone calls. Doing these will simply be counter productive and make your ex more resistant. In most cases, no one will be attracted to a desperate and pitiable person and your ex will not an exception. Just step back, take a deep breath and go to work on yourself. You may not have to change your values and personality but if there are any aspects of your life that need to be improved upon, work on it. A change in attitude always works wonders.

The benefit of this approach is that as you work on yourself you grow and improve several aspects of your life while allowing for time for your boyfriend to think things over and miss you. You will easily be found attractive by several prospects seeing your awesome qualities.

Strong Women: Tips to Help You Drop the Guard

It took us a great deal of hard work to get where we are and now having reaped the fruit of our life-long journey we realize that we lost touch with our feminine side. Through the struggle we have become too strong, intimidating for a man; difficult to approach.

It is that fear that kept us moving forward conquering the world; establishing our social status.

We are secretly yearning for someone to walk into our life and take this burden off our shoulders. Ironically, men that we tend to attract are “the weaker type” – followers. We don’t ever get fully satisfied and still look for “a real man,” but when we get anywhere close to such man, we know we can’t be together – it’s so hard to allow losing even a fraction of control.

What’s the solution?

How can you undo decades of denying your feminine nature in struggle to excel in our power-driven world? This takes a transformation that will change your life experience.

1. Connect with your feelings. Fully embrace your imperfection, realize its essential quality to make you unique, human, lovable.

Question your desire to be self-sufficient. Create space for others to help you. Allow yourself to receive.

2. Transform your inner strength to open up. If today you use your strength to build protective walls around yourself, try this instead: rely on your inner strength to know that no one can harm you; no one can take away your inner power or make you sacrifice yourself. You then can let yourself be open and vulnerable; and allow forming intimate connections without fear.

 

The Requirements for the Muslim Marriage

In the Muslim matrimony, the males are the bread earners of the household. The women stay at home and do the household chores. However, in the Muslim society too, education among women has revolutionized and the females step out of the home for professional reasons.

For a Muslim Matrimony, there are some requirements to be fulfilled, which are:

1. The choice of spouse: the marriage proposal usually comes from the man. The Muslim marriage is decided by mutual consent, the consent of both spouses is required. The parents generally choose the future husband of their daughters. If there is no impediment to the marriage, a marriage contract is made between the groom and the marriage guardian of the bride, who gives her consent for the marriage. The point is that religious marriage must take place before the consummation of the union. Otherwise, if the bride is pregnant, the proposal of marriage can only take place after childbirth.

2. Mixed marriages: There are certain conditions in Muslim matrimony that differ according to the man or woman. A Jewish or Christian lady, who is married to a Muslim man, remains free during the marriage to practice her own religion. Muslim women, in turn, can only marry a Muslim. If a woman chooses a person who is not Muslim, he will have to get converted to Islam in order to be eligible for to marry a Muslim woman. An agreement is signed under the Islamic law, after which the bride and groom are declared as husband and wife.